#1 Parents are busy succeeding and/or surviving professionally and in the family. At work the mantra is "Commit more timework harder not necessarily smarter and you can keep your job and provide for your family and the church." The church does not generally speak into the professional life of a lawyer, doctor, educator, business person, etc.

#2 Parents want their child to have a career where they can be at least in the middle class and certainly not have to live with them after high school or college. Society makes many promises to high school students and college students. It does not keep them all. But it has enough anecdotal success stories to create a climate of fear that if your child does not live up, they will be poor. We need a set of stories that demonstrate that our discipling system produces a more effective and empowering result for teens. This does not mean a larger percentage going into ministry or missions. Sorry.

#3 The public educational system was not designed to empower but to educate and create a literate population. This 18th century model is ineffective even if it is efficient. We created the public educational system. We can reform it for a 21st century global society. Big assignment. It will take a call from God.

The underlying problem

Parents do not see Christianity as an empowering influence in their own professional or family lives, so why should they make discipling, intercessory prayer, etc., a priority skill set in their teen's life?

Solutions

1. A body of believers (small groups) needs to become involved in the career/vocational aspects of its members.
2. Talk is necessary but not sufficient. The group needs to problem solve and find solutions for problems and opportunities for specific members.
3. The group needs to empower people through challenges, networking and even financing.
4. The group needs to be intercessory prayer people with very specific answerable/tangible outcomes that people can see for themselves God at work.
5. When you have modeled this for the adult group members, then you will have earned the respect and trust to take on the children of the parents that you have successfully empowered/mentored.