"For I have the desire to do what is good, but I cannot carry it out.” Romans 7:18

A regular conversation I have with my middle-aged friends who have done well in business starts out like this: “I’m a success – I’ve provided for my family and lived the life of a good Christian, but I know God has built me for more, what do I do?”

We carry eternity in our hearts. We know the high standard to which we’ve been called; we feel the call to a purpose that only God can fulfill. But if you’re like me, you’re all too aware of the gap between what is possible and the reality of your life that comes up short. The “weight of glory” I feel sometimes seems to me like a leg iron – there’s nothing glorious about opportunities missed; this idea of missing my destiny sometimes haunts my dreams.

And I wonder if a generation of young people in America isn’t living its lives in this twilight valley - knowing there’s more, yearning for it, yet experiencing little of the glorious possibilities available.

I believe this greatness we feel within ourselves is birthed when we transition to the life of dependence on God that is part of the Christian’s DNA, a life that finds little room for expression in our risk-averse society. Jesus understood this disconnect, he understood that the habit of risk arbitrage is so deeply rooted in most of us, that we need to recklessly abandon our moorings for a while and experience true dependence on him.

Jesus understood that most Christians never make it beyond the safe harbor of their normal life out into the wild, open sea. He knew that unless the rich young ruler pulled up the anchor of his self-sufficient lifestyle, he had no chance of learning to depend on God. His requirement for growth may seem harsh to our 20th-century ears, but we are in need of the same medicine.

We live in a nation of rich young rulers who have experienced success in attaining personal goals and want to experience success in God’s kingdom. Yet, they are afraid to leave the safe harbor of normal life, a life they know to be good, but not great. They intuitively know that greatness is only found out beyond the horizon where the waves are high and life is unpredictable.